Hey guys... I have been coaching non stop these past few months and I have been getting amazing results with students. Here one of the students who got laid during the training writes a very detailed description of what happened during our 1on1 session. At the end he pulled a cutie back to her place! To me a successful training is not only when my student pulls but I also follow up on all my students and I want to know if they are still getting results after our session. I don't leave my students hanging! I think that the follow up after training follow up is an important as the training. I usually call students up once a month to check up on their progress. But enough talking for now, check out this awesome review.
Hey Hyper!
Hows it going man? I just read about that bathroom pull on your blog. Pretty awesome dude!!
Last night I pulled this black girl from an after hours place to a Days In, where she was staying. I was leading her and getting compliance in all sort of ways. I kept breaking her state when she was sitting on my lap by "going outside to talk on the phone," and by having her hold my garbage while I was holding her hand on the walk back from the food place (which I gained compliance by leading her to). I encountered resistance going back to the hotel because her two friends were there to give her a ride, but I basically hung in there and got her gay friend to be a "cheerleader" for me by staying at the bar with his friend until I was done with her at the motel! I got her back and almost all naked, but despite my indifference and non-neediness towards the whole LMR thing, I couldn't get her to have sex with me (she was young, like 18). She did give me a sweet blowjob though, so it's all good. Her friends walked in on us! Haha. I pretty much just feel asleep and when I woke up, I just bounced, leaving her to never see me ever again.
Here is the training review I promised. It's been a while, but fortunately I wrote a lot of it down after the experience so I didn't forget!
Hyper 1 on 1 Training Review by Swagger_Jack
Before arriving to New York city for my 1 on 1 training with Hyper, I knew that I had some holes in my game, but was still unsure of what they were exactly. Over the phone, Hyper had told me that he would help me fix these holes and that with a little bit of time I would be very successful. I arrived for my training very much excited, but uncertain of what to expect.
DAY GAME
When I first met hyper, he was very charismatic. We walked around and talked for a few minutes before getting right down to business. He told me that he would approach a set and then I would approach set, and that we would go back and forth for a while. He discussed with me the importance of getting into a sociable state, and explained to me how that many times we are not in that place right off the bat. The first girl that he approached was a very beautiful black girl walking towards the subway. He opened with "you are the cutest girl I've seen all day". I tried to get close and listen in but couldn't hear very much. He tried to get her name for Facebook, as she was walking really fast, but I don't think he got her full name or it was a hard name to spell and/or remember. Next it was my turn. I approached a girl sitting down who was playing with her ipod. I can't remember what I opened with, but she seemed very receptive. I ejected after a few minutes, and when I went back to Hyper he asked if I had gotten her number because she was attracted to me. When I said no, he asked "why not?" It's always important to close in every interaction he said, otherwise it's wasted. I went back and tried to get her number but she told me she was 16. Oops.
Hyper told me that I need more structure so we decided to open sets with the horse girl routine. He opened a girl and she was instantly interested. This isn't always the case, but sometimes girls will be very receptive depending on the state that they are in. She picked up her phone and he told her that it was ok to answer it. She was taking too long on the phone and he walked away. He told me that distractions when just approaching a girl and opening her can sometimes destroy the interaction. It's better to walk away than stay and look needy. You always have to anticipate and deal with any possible distractions for the girl that might arise.
Starbucks was our next destination. On line for coffee Hyper opened up a girl with horse girl routine. She was getting very attracted to him. She started looking at me and Hyper introduced us, so I chimed in for a little while. I was trying to listen to him mostly and what I noticed was that he was very friendly, charismatic, and kept spinning everything in a flirty way. He told a lot of stories and did a lot of cold reads on her, all the while keeping the conversation moving (plowing). She stopped responding to me, and what I later learned was that I asked too many questions and made too many short remarks. He critiqued what I said and told me the importance of understanding what kind of girl I was dealing with, and that I dealt with her incorrectly.
Next we left and walked back into the park. I approached a beautiful blonde on the bench. She was as cold as ice. I tried to keep plowing but ran out of things to say. There was an awkward silence. Hyper stepped in and started plowing. He tried to guess where she was from and spoke a few lines to her in polish. She cracked a smile a few times but still wouldn't get talking. Eventually she answered her phone and walked away. What Hyper told me to take from this was that it's important to remain unaffected and to keep on talking. Also, not every girl will be receptive. It is no reflection on you, just keep moving on. It's important to hold a strong frame.
We walked into a clothing store and I opened a girl with horse girl. The girl seemed attracted to me, but a girl standing nearby laughed at me and said that it was cute (insinuating that it was a pickup line). This made me lose state, and I switched over to telling the girl that she was cute, and that was why I approached her. She made up an excuse and walked away. When I went over to Hyper, he told me that I should completely ignore everybody else and just focus in on me and the girl. 100% intent. Also, I have to be congruent. If I open with horse girl, I should stay on that track and transition into something else, rather than reveal my opener as a routine or something canned and throw all my cards on the table by displaying too much interest upfront when coming in under the radar.
After walking around for a while I approached a girl sitting on a bench alone. She was also very cold, and I eventually ejected due to the awkward silence. Hyper then figured out one of my main sticking points, which was that I was seeking validation through reaction. We talked for a while about identity and what I wanted from my life. I told him that I felt like I had been neglecting my music due to focusing on pickup and other areas on my life and it made me feel unhappy with myself. He told me that the first thing I had to do when I went home was to post ads and find a band. If this was the only thing I took from the one on one, it would probably be the most important. Having an identity is one of the most important things for anybody.
Next I approached another girl on a bench alone with the intent to have a strong frame and not seek validation. Hyper told me to have fun with it and be charismatic. I felt like I was enjoying the conversation and so was the girl, but I wasn't that attracted to her so I ejected.
Perhaps one of the longest sets of the night came next. Hyper was showing me some of his music on his headphones while we were walking, and then we went to sit down next to two girls. He told me to do an opinion opener. I asked the girls, "my friend has a girlfriend, and we were talking about wether or not it would be cheating if she kissed another girl. what do you think?" The most important thing is to make it seem spontaneous and fun. We had a long conversation and then we ejected. Hyper gave me a break down of what happened. The girls were showing a lot of attraction, because they were investing in the conversation, facing in towards us, and in general just giving us very open body language. The girls were getting turned on because Hyper kept introducing sexual frames into the conversation, which was obvious by their interest in the topic and the looks in their eyes. When he got up for a minute to take a phone call, the girls gave me a some shit tests. They started asking about my mustache and how I really knew him and numerous others. Apparently my frame was a little shaky. It wasn't weak, but it wasn't strong either, which is ultimately what you want to get girls attracted to you and show them that you are the kind of man that you say you are (congruence) and want to be with. He also explained to me the possible scenarios that could have came from the interaction, including a bounce to a comedy show or a bar that we were headed towards.
NIGHT GAME
We went into a place that was a converted hair salon or was themed as such. Hyper left me alone to go approach women. I opened a two set at a bar and got some attraction. My target wasn't the girl I was talking to, but rather her friend, however the girl I was talking to seemed pretty interested in me. They told me they had to go somewhere else and left pretty soon. When I went back to Hyper I told him that the girl I was talking to was attracted to me but that I really wanted her friend. He told me that I had to go over to her friend eventually and display interest in her otherwise she wouldn't know I was interested. This should have been very obvious.
We went to a few more places to get stamped. The first venue we went to I wanted to approach immediately, but Hyper explained buying temperature to me. It's not always good to approach girls when they just arrive, seem cold (un warmed up), and are ready to be interrupted (be it by buying a drink or by meeting friends). He also said to see who looks at you and approach them first. In this case, with the first group I approached, I used the opener "do you think my friend looks like a drug dealer?" She asked me which friend, and when I pointed to Hyper, she seemed interested in him. I asked Hyper if this opener came across like I was trying to introduce a friend, and he said yes. Next I approached the group I originally wanted to approach, but they were warmed up now and had a drink. I opened with an opinion opener and this little French girl and I had a few minute conversation. Hyper turned around to introduce me to this group of girls and I kind of did a back turn to the French girl. They wanted us to leave to another location, but I told Hyper I wanted to get this girl's number first. After we were leaving I told him that she seemed interested and was touching me back. He said that if a girl is touching you it means she will most likely go home with you. SOLID advice that has opened my eyes wide ever since.
I approached this girl in a line who was looking at me with the horse girl opener. She opened well, but her friend started asking me questions like "are you trippin?" I instantly recognized this as a shit test, so I maintained a strong frame by saying "no, but I wish I was," and kept talking. When I told him about this, he gave me a high five and bro hug and said "Awesome dude! Thats totally it!"
Hyper also helped me sculpt texts to the French girl so as not to come of needy, but also to be playful and keep her intrigued. At Pianos, he had me do 10 sets without help, so he could critique me, It was especially loud because there was a band playing, but this was part of the challenge. I mostly opened with the thumb war opener. With one girl I approached I had trouble recognizing attraction. Hyper told me that by her giving me her hand that was compliance, and that by her standing there and talking to me it meant she was attracted and that I needed to reward her by touching her a little bit. I told him that we mostly had comfort building, boring conversation, but he said that it didn't matter. Escalation needs to happen even if it is slowly, and it needs to be calibrated to the girl and the situation. In the back room everybody was dancing and I opened a few girls. One that I opened with a lyric from the song that was playing seemed like her buying temperature was through the roof. I probably could have kissed her in the first 30 seconds, but missed my opportunity. Another girl had a boyfriend and I ignored him and opened her. He started getting mad when I told him I would pay him 100 dollars to take her off of my hands. She was amused but he started getting angry, claiming he was her boyfriend, and when I asked him to kiss her he did, so I walked away.
We walked over to another bar, but it was apparent that the French girl who I had been communicating with through text was interested in meeting up. So we went to her bar and I approached her outside.
THE PULL:
Hyper hung in the background when I went inside with the girl. I made friends with her friends, but then they somehow disappeared off into the night, leaving us alone. She kept touching me and trying to hold me, and I reciprocated a little bit but mostly played aloof, not to jump through her hoops and appear too needy. I bought her a drink (the only acceptable time when a girl is already interested), and we chatted for a while and kissed. I leaded her again outside to smoke a cigarette and I got a text from Hyper telling me to tone down the touching to amplify up the sexual tension. She asked me what we were doing now, and I told her that we were going to get some food. When we got to the deli, I told her that I was getting my food to go. Outside I made it readily apparent that I wasn't going to be in New York for very long. Apparently she had sex on her mind because she told me that "we weren't going to have sex tonight" because she" wasn't that type of girl". I mostly acted indifferent to this statement and changed the subject while hailing a cab. She got in and even payed for the cab. When we got to her apartment she told me that we had to be really discreet. Apparently this is what she was most worried about. This wasn't the time to be egotistical, so I told her that I would honor her wishes. We get up to her beautiful apartment which overlooked the world trade centers. Fade to black.
AFTER THE TRAINING
I approached the next day with confidence and was getting a lot more attraction from the girls I was talking to. It was my last day in NYC and I was set to hang out with a girl whom I had met at a bar in NC a couple of weeks earlier by basically approached a "cold" set and talking to the girl who was not my target, but ended up getting the number anyway. I had hung out with her the night before the training and the sex was good, so I wanted a sure bet.
In the week following my training, I noticed my ability to open and generate attraction through the use of the horse girl line and opinion openers (which I never knew the power of). On three occasions I would get to the stage where it would be time to pull, and things would go wrong or I wouldn't hang in there and pull the trigger. Hyper was super informative on the follow up phone consultation that we had. It really helped to tie together everything we had talked about in the training and then some. By being persistent I was able to pull a black girl back to her motel last night despite some obstacles that I would have never tried to overcome had we not had that talk on the phone.
It is nice to know that Hyper is just a phone call away if I need another consultation. I wouldn't want an instructor who just disappears forever after the training and doesn't care about the progress of the student.
To me, Hyper feels like a normal guy who really has his shit together. There is nothing that I ask him that he doesn't know the answer to or hasn't encountered in some way or another. He is really charismatic and super friendly. You can tell that he enjoys what he is doing and really has the student's best interests in mind. At no point in our training did I feel like he was being condescending or rude to me or any other person he talked to. He felt like a good friend I could talk to about anything, even outside of pickup. I am really pretty honest about people, and I felt compelled to write this review without being asked to do so.
I strongly recommend taking a training with Hyper. No matter where your skill level is (mine was intermediate), you will learn things about your game and interactions with people that you never would have imagined. It is too bad that I couldn't have him with me every weekend to iron out my game in half the time! Ultimately it's about having somebody with experience show you, through demonstrations and listening in, what is really going on, and how you can get what you want out of pickup the most quickly. Every time I go out, I notice that my game is positively influenced by Hyper's teachings, and well, that is worth far more than the cost that I paid for the instruction!
Kind regards,
Swagger_Jack
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