Hyper's Q&A:

This question is from K on the 30/30:

hey man

hey man.. how do i use my "life story" "identity" in seducing a chick ?..like how can i talk about myself that comes off as attractive to a woman?.

Ive been into seduction since this summer ( when my ex left me), And i started studying sedcition and psychology like a madmen..plowed throught materials for 15 hours a day ..
i stayed home for about 1 month and just isolated myself with studying pickup..
And once i started go to the bars.. I got immediately sucess..Got 5-6 chicks every night i go out, got 2-3 phone numbers usually..Got laid 4 times, got some make outs..
But I got alots of FLAking numbers..coz i understand..I got the attraction going,.but then the next day, the attraction had faded coz i didnt bond on a deeper level..
which is What is difficult for me, i m ok at generating attraction, But then i have a hard time to build Deeper rapport..

Also I dont like going out to bars anymore.. Its just to stressful environment for me, And the chicks are drunk and the insecurity gets the best out of people.
Id like to learn DAy time approach..Get really good at picking up chicks in the bookstore, Mall, etc..
but its so scary picking up chicks on the day, when you are totally sober,but i want to not rely on alcohol to get good at picking up chicks..

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K, this is a great question! Guys who have great identities don't have to game as hard as guys who don't have great identities. However the path to a great identity is HARD WORK. You just have to be great at what you do. I will give you an example... Musicians. The bands who are signed have more opportunities to get action by hotter/ higher value girls than the bands who are on indie labels. Then the bands on indie labels will get chances to get girls who are hotter than an unsigned band. So the further you go in your career then more opportunities you will have to get a higher quality / hotter girls. But let's say you identity is something like a computer programmer. Well it can still work the same... I know a guy who wrote a formula that affects how the stock market boards operate. He made tons of money and right now he lives in a really sick place with the view of the whole city.

He gets laid a lot because he has a sick identity and it shows, in the place he has and the lifestyle he lives. SO he wasn't just a regular computer programmer he was ELITE! The best of the best. That takes HARD WORK!!! When you reach such a high level like that and you have game you can get laid a ton and not work too hard at it at all... because your life becomes a DHV.

However if you are still working on your way to the top... there will be girls who are more or less on the same level as you. Maybe you are a musician who is signed to an indie label and the girl is model who also signed to not very well known model agency... then you guys are going to be compatible with each other. But if you want a girl who is in a BIG TIME model agency you are going to have to turn on the game a little more to make up for your lack of identity. You might run DHV stories where you talk about your cool life and great things you do. Etc...

So to answer your question:

how can i talk about myself that comes off as attractive to a woman?

You can tell stories about cool things you did, places you been, adventures, you playful tell her that girls hit on you all the time... etc. All these things will help.

But the best kind of DHV... (demonstration of higher value) is become a walking DHV.

- Dress cool

- Be cool

- Be funny

- Great conversationalist

- Great at building connections

- Kino good

- Escalate

- Be a leader

- Be passionate about something

- Be good at what you are passionate about

- Show her that you have a future and are going places (even though you might not yet be where you want to be... sometimes the showing her what you can become and that you are ambitious and have dreams can be good enough.

All these things will take you really far with most girls.

Then you next question addresses comfort and rapport building. Okay that is really a skill that you will develop as you continue your journey of learning game. But I can point you the right direction.

When the girl is attracted sometimes you might want to build a connection. I say sometimes because you don't always have to do it lets say if you want a quickie bathroom pull in the club etc... but most of the times it might be in your best interest to run some comfort game.

During connection / comfort you want to SWITCH GEARS. That means... chill out with attraction game and build a connection with the girl. WHILE KEEPING THE KINO GOING AND SEXUAL ESCALATION GOING AS WELL. ***** That is very important. YOU ALWAYS WANT TO KEEP ESCALATING. But do this while talking about thing that will help you connect and get to know her better.

I'll put a video up of some questions that can help you connect better with girls... CHECK THIS OUT... pick 3 questions and make it part of your comfort game... this will def give you a head start.

As for any other question that you have... I am available for phone consultations. All you need to do is call up the number on bradp.com and ask Drew my availability.

I hope this gives you a head start

and good luck out there in the field

hyper