How I get in state for pick up...

If you haven't discovered the secret to do great every time you go out... then you have been missing out big time. There is no reason why you should have "off nights" with this little precious gem. Why? - Because you won't be out trying to have good nights! - Get it?

When I go out coaching... there is a big pressure to perform. Last coaching session I did nearly 10 demos for a student. The student actually came with a list of things he wanted to see. He wanted to see how to talk to girls seating down, standing up, on the street, in groups, he wanted to see me approach 10's... it just so many things that required me to be in state, and be in control of my state as well... in other words, have great state management.

So what is the best state to get when you pick up?

To me, the times I perform best are when I am in a state similar to how I was when I was very young.

- Before people put in my head that you have to 'be cool'

- Before there was social pressure to 'do well'

- Before anxiety existed

- Before I learned how to judge people

- Before I cared about anyone judging me

- Before I cared about how I looked

- Before what I wore mattered

- Before I 'needed' anything to make me happy

I just think back to that time and I was truly happy. It was an amazing time in my life... and I believe everyone experiences something similar... and what I try to do with the people I meet is make them feel at ease and try to get them back to that time in their lives. I do this with my students as well to help them get in state.

When you are able to go into the time in your head... the world changes. You see, and think different things, and nothing really matters that much... because you are happy with whatever you have because you don't expect anything. So if you approach a girl and the conversation is 3 minutes long... then you look at that as a positive 3 minute interaction. If you get a blow out... you accept that the other person may not want to talk to you and that is okay. You wish them a nice day... and walk on.

It is a great positive state to be on. I teach this at my trainings... if you want to hear more... just ask here... or contact Drew on bradp.com for a training with me. I will teach you how to access this powerful state and much more.

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