Why are you here? Is there anything wrong with you?

Okay so you must be reading this post for a reason. You are looking to improve yourself.

Great marketing and sales people on TV and everywhere you go... tell you that you are missing something in your life... They try and convince you that something is wrong with you. They want to make sure that you know that you are missing out in life... until you get MORE... maybe it's a certain product they are trying to sell to you. I don't think there is anything wrong with selling. In fact I was top salesman at every sales job I work.

But the reason I was top salesman was because I was real with people. I built a connection and made friends with them not because I made them feel like something was missing inside them... maybe they already did when they came to me...

But that is besides the point... I wanted to address the question:

Why are you here? Is something wrong with you?

The answer to this question is NO.

There is nothing wrong with you. Except for the fact that YOU think there is something wrong with you. Maybe you think you are not good with girls and that is a problem.

Well let me tell you... In the grand scheme of things... that is really not a big problem. There are many people who don't have a partner in life and feel lonely and get by just fine. In fact most of the world lives that way. That is fine. It's really not a big deal.

The faster you can accept that there is nothing wrong with your situation... the faster you can begin improving it. When I realized that I got into the community because I thought that there was something wrong with me and I tried to 'improve myself' it was a very liberating experience.

I realized that:

1 - You can't 'improve yourself' there is really nothing to improve. You are who you are.

And you already are perfect the way you are. Sure you can go to the gym, get a good body,

and, work on your game, get a hot girlfriend, and have a lot of bathroom pulls. But that is not going to change who you are. That is only going to change other people's perception of who you are. But you are still the same person. You don't change.

So if you don't change... the liberating experience is to accept who you are in this world. Be okay with being who you are.

2 - I also noticed that a lot of people in this community, can easily end up doing laps around the same block, always looking to see what is going to be in the next corner and obviously it is the same exact thing. Maybe it's a different girl, different bathroom pull, but it's always the same situation. When I realized I was stuck in the loop and running around in circles... I knew that this would be a never ending cycle. If I didn't make myself aware of the WHY I was doing it... (was really what I truly wanted or 'just because') and if it was what I really wanted... then I could end up running in circles and not making any linear progress.

The linear progress I am talking about is the one where you find out more about yourself in the process and because of that your view of the world expands.

So when you read this I hope that you become aware of WHY you are here... and realize that there is really nothing wrong with you... it is okay to learn pick up and the benefits you will get from it will be tremendous! But if you don't decide to learn it is perfectly cool too.

This mentality will actually help you double your learning time!!! Because you will be focus on the learning process and not how much progress you are making. Focusing on progress is the killer in learning any skill fast.

Happy Holidays.

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